Are there any Tv shows or movies that delve into the idea of how men and women communicate or talk diffrent.?

Do™.

No. especially not post 1980s. Movies and TV are created to simply make money by pandering to the emotions of the demographic. To actually understand the difference in communication between the sexes would require you discarding all preconceptions and analysing any given media unemotionally and devoid of conventions. Few people can do that. That being said you could probably pass the smell test by using colloquial language wrapped in big meaningless psycho babble words.... Gone with the wind.

StarShine

There was one called 'the Naked Ape' at one point I believe.