Do I need to be a certain age to have a surgery to never have any kids?

I’m 25 with no kids but I think it would be best to not have any kids in the future and don’t want to have any at all.. i want to have my tubes tied but I was told they only do it for older women with like 3 kids but I don’t even want one... I just don’t feel I’m fit to have children.. I’m way to emotionally unstable and it’s definitely best and I don’t wanna make some child suffer dealing with me like that.. I’m already the girl ppl never want long and ppl tend to sleep with me a few times and leave wen I think they actually care... I’m scared I’ll get pregnant and make some child suffer also.. like recently I went out with a guy a few days ago and we slept together and had a lot of fun and we both had a good time and I’m very sure he blocked me and I’m used to these things and I feel like I’m never wanted so I tend to hav emotional breakdowns and thoughts of suicide... I wouldn’t be able to raise a child like this...
Answers

Alisyn

It might be easier to have a non-hormonal IUD put in or the Nexplanon arm implant. Many doctors refuse to perform surgery that impairs fertility, especially when alot of women yearn for kids in their mid-late 30's. I understand it's your body and your choice. But, you may have a tough time finding a dr. that will tie your tubes.

Ranchmom1

Individual doctors make decisions about whether or not to accept the case. Three months ago you were interested in parenting, according to your question history, so you might want to reconsider a permanent thing like getting your tubes tied.

Anonymous

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sarah

From what I've heard, it's extremely hard to do unless you have a medical reason. It depends a lot on the laws in your state and even more on your doctor. I know women who have asked to get it done after having two kids (the proverbial "perfect" family of a boy and a girl, at that), were in their mid-twenties, and their doctor still sent them away to "think it over" for a few weeks or so before agreeing to do the procedure (I think most insurance companies require a waiting period, too). Doctors are worried that women are going to jump into getting it done, regret their decision, and come back looking for a chunk of the doctor's pocketbook.

Edna

Having your tubes tied ensures permanent sterility. You're only 25, and it's possible you might change your mind later and want to have kids. Instead of undergoing surgery to have your tubes tied, why not consider having a copper-type IUD inserted in your uterus instead? It will continuously protect you against pregnancy for 10 years. At the end of 10 years, you have to have it removed and replaced with a new one, in order to continue 10 more years of protection. You have the option of having it removed at any time, if you ever decide you want to have kids.

S81

My doctor wouldn’t tie my tubes after 1 child. I think you should look into getting a nexaplanon implant. It’s a birth control implant that goes in your arm and lasts for years. Mr right may come along later down the road

Anonymous

Age isn't the main factor. A woman can have it done if she already has at least two children. For a woman who has never had children - you will have a hard time finding a doctor willing to do it and you will very likely need to go through some kind of therapy first to make sure that you are ready for that choice. If a doctor thinks you are making a choice based on a poor emotional state of mind - which you are - then the doctor is going to refer you to therapy and see if the therapist also recommends that you have the tubal.

Anonymous

You just keep calling doctors till you find that one out there in your area. You know your life and what you can handle. Society pushes women to have kids. Listen to you.

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It is a good thing you are thinking along the lines that you are.... BUT having your tubes tied atm is a bit radical imo. The answer is yes, you can have it done - BUT that will not solve the other issues you have about lacking self worth and emotional stability. Respectfully recommend that you seek some counseling to help guide you through your issues and concerns. In the mean time - consider putting the breaks on dating and falling into bed with guys until you are stronger and more stable within yourself. Once you are on a more solid footing and happy - your life will change and you will be even more attractive to guys and you may find "the one." At that point you may want the option to have kids and a previous tubal ligation procedure would make that even more difficult. Best to keep your options open as your feeling may change. You can always have it done if you and your partner both decide not to have kids together. Having it done may make it even harder to find a partner to spend your life with.