Is my clit/vagina broken?
J
Its a lot more difficult to desensitized than people think in regards to this you would literally have to by using enough force to damage nerve endings and considering your age these could still easily repair themselves. Also the fact that it felt like you where getting shocked is a very good indication you are actually still very sensitive down there. As far as getting off plenty of woman have struggled with this as they don't have the mind body connection in enough ways to make them trigger an orgasm Its an entirely new experience for your body and your nerves. Try looking around the net you will find a lot of women who struggled to achieve there first orgasm or struggled breaking free of being able to get off except for one particular way. If the vibrator isn't feeling good then your just not ready for one or it doesn't provide a stimulation your body enjoys both of these factors can change over time so don't feel defeated about it. As far as you getting off its just a matter of getting comfortable and finding the right mindset to bring yourself to climax through new forms of stimulation after you get off the first time in a new way the next time will be easier and then easier still as you continue on until it is just a natural way to get off that you don't even have to get the might set right for. So just work your way up into new comfort zones and don't try and make huge jumps if you use to grind against your foot then move onto using fingers then maybe something like more solid toys then maybe vibrators. Also there are plenty of health experts and bloggers that write informative articles on this stuff and can give plenty of useful tips and ideas on masturbation and its worth spending some time to read. It never hurts to have a better understanding of how your own body works by doing some research it might also give you some insight for the future when you eventually have a sexual partner and ways to please them.
lala
Its because your experience is new with a vibrator if it make you pee maybe ;;you just irritate a bit your clitoris Do not panic everything will be OK