Why are many adults ruled over by letting their inner-child of the past make their decisions because of the lack of adult experience?

j

Inner sense when living soul-field = dynamic innocence, joy, God-based creativity. The "ad-ult(imate)" is the outer waking ego, which, when guided by Soul, God, champions its own individuating inner Child soul-field (i.e., toward resonant salvation per putting on, becoming, Godly virtues of joy, love, truth, and so on). If "ad-ult" ego ("character," "spirit of a man") is prone toward childish greed, lust, fear, etc.--and has not had good parenting (= love of and championing/nurturing of inner child, soul), then there is a combining of egotism and childishness, which may indeed "rule" the "ad-ult" who, by a type of confirmation bias, has become a "party animal" or, less frequently, a coldish "nerd." So, if one is not living in the Light of Love, Life, Truth, Joy, Mindfulness, and so on, one may indeed be better "ruled" or "guided" by wise parenting and one's own cherished "angel of better nature"--"like a little child, into kingdom of Heaven," or one may, per confirmation bias, elect existential hedonism and play the egoji. Insofar as women cherish (e.g. not abort) their "inner child," they are more "very, very good," as the female is more personal; likewise, if the female is "pro-abort" re her own inner sense (nb "Slutty the Clown," a real-time comedienne), then the female is "very, very..." (common parable of the little girl "who, when she was good, was very, very good," etc.). The values of the mother are first and early on impressed onto her own children, hence, if the general hand that guides or rocks the cradle is becoming more negative or childish, the next generation tends to proceed in that downhill trend, a phenomenon seen in declining nation-states that are losing finer sensibilities, typically per corruption in the marketplace, forms of entertainment, "educational" curricula, etc. As frogs in a slowly-warming kettle, per Whitehead's observation that the fish does not especially notice the pervading water element, and per Pitirim Sorokin's pioneering sociological insights, "tipping points" are typically reached, points of inflection when "white becomes black, and black becomes white," "good is termed evil, and evil called good." An earlier, intermediate stage is the adoption of fallen angles, so-called "intellectuals" who provide such thought-forms, which tend to guide the mass-cult. Thus so-called and seemingly-privileged "adult(erous) experience" is a canard, a way that seemeth right, but, e.g., per the sex cult as a cult of death, are false flags, fallen angles, etc. The frisson which "adult viewers only" etc. typically brings is that of endorphin-addiction, in which e.g. porn or violence, to be "cool," must needs be graphically increased, as there is a habituation effect which finds the childish "adult experiencer" simply feeling "bored" or "empty" after entering the cave or "bottomless pit" of "dense (aka "wrong") desires." The psychological template given by Saint John the Divine is an example of this process. In Bible-speak, the "talking +/-" relativism or Energy-veiling of the Genesis parable has, per "adult choices," become a red (angry) dragon in Revelation, and the whoremonger/perverted plutocrat is a similarly-increased "Adam," and the great whore is a similarly-increased "Eve." The female is the weaker vessel in this regard, being more sensate, as more personalbe soul-in-Mater, whereas the more coldly-calculating male (in Revelation) laughs scornfully at the needy weaker whorishness, and seeks, "at best" "fresh new meat to 'carve'"--the more extreme "anti-Messiah" coldly/strategically disdains woman generally, as to consort with womb-man is to encounter at least a debased and potential representative of divine Mother, who indeed has power over the "serpent." Such energies tend to move in cycles, e.g. plutocratic fascism, after having weakening the whole society (due to debasement of divine Mother), being supplanted by whorish socialism/communism. Cf. French Revolution stages ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/French_Revolution ), and Neil Strauss' "The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists." Related: "Understanding Yourself" by Mark Prophet; "Man, Master of His Destiny;" "The Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil;" "Runaway Realization;" "Flow" by Mihaly C.; "The Great Divorce;" "Autobiography of a Yogi;" "Beams from Meher Baba."

Anonymous

I don't really find that common.

Gang stalking victim

Because I’m a ToysRUs kid and I don’t ever want to grow up

Alex

..or...are they simply cunning?

h

But are children ever free to be children these days or any days, really?

AttackSmile

Habit.

Captain

Facades and judgmental mindset.

d_r_siva: Literature says

Literature says: All the world is a stage, and all the men and women are merely players: they have their exits and their entrances - William Shakespeare https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/w/williamsha166828.html Science tells: Every Human Brain Is Unique in it's own way http://marenschmidt.com/2010/05/every-brain-is-unique/ The human brain is the most complex structure in the universe - New techniques are producing great excitement among neuroscientists http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/editorials/the-human-brain-is-the-most-complex-structure-in-the-universe-let-s-do-all-we-can-to-unravel-its-9233125.html http://www.wnyc.org/story/michio-kaku-explores-human-brain/ Human brain - "More Complex Than a Galaxy" http://www.dailygalaxy.com/my_weblog/2012/09/-the-most-complex-organ-in-the-milky-way-new-insights-into-the-enormous-biochemical-complexity-of-th.html

Prasad

Aristotle once said, "It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." Listening to others' ideas may not be easy, but it could be an valuable way to learn something new or change your perspective on life. “You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.” — Albert Camus one man's meat is another man's poison - said to emphasize that people like different things http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/one-man-s-meat-is-another-man-s-poison?a=british https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/us/one_man's_meat_is_another_man's_poison Each group that they belong to and each characteristic they call their own contributes to the diversity that is needed for humans to thrive. Each individual adds something different to the group in temperament, skills, and genes. And each group, however small, adds spice to the larger group. Some of us are better at healing or hunting or even thinking. But the healer needs the hunter, just as the hunter needs the healer. The thinker needs the doer, just as the doer needs the thinker. http://www.threeleggeddragon.com/writings/simply/simple.social.html https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/social-life

Doctor P: proverb

proverb: People vary greatly in character, tastes, and abilities (often used as a comment on what the speaker feels to be strange behaviour) https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/it_takes_all_sorts_to_make_a_world it takes all kinds to make a world Alternative forms: it takes all kinds it takes all sorts it takes all sorts to make a world it takes all types it takes all types to make a world Diversity is essential: the world would be incomplete if everyone were alike. https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/it_takes_all_kinds_to_make_a_world “Some are born great, some achieve greatness, and some have greatness thrust apon them” — William Shakespeare (via giveandletliive) “Some people dream of success… while others wake up and work hard at it.” “Anyone who says sunshine brings happiness has never danced in the rain.” Our interests and behavioral dispositions are as unique as our fingerprints. Even within a family, one’s way of being happy may not be the same with another. One, for example, may find that he is happier when he is in a contemplative mood and his twin brother, steeped in group laughter and fun, may find solitary disposition rather boring. We notice that the differences grow bigger when one has to deal with people from other cultures. http://awate.com/unique-as-our-fingerprints/ Humans are free to do what they want, without this freedom there could be no morality. In such a case, no basis for what could be deemed as good or bad behavior in the eyes of a God because without freewill we would just be pre-programmed unable to change or alter what has already been laid out in front of us. There are only two things certain in each one of our lives, we live, and then we die, everything in between is up to the individual. Hard determinism only clouds the mind if we are enslaved to thinking we are free, then those who believe that they have no control over life are going through life making decisions based on what they perceive as pre-determined. To say we have a path set for us is to make us no more than a robot, and because robots cannot discuss topics intelligently and cannot act intelligently in situations proves that theory wrong. We all have identity each human individual is unique even twins are different. Our minds are just as unique as our fingerprints http://www.exampleessays.com/viewpaper/90697.html Every child is born with a unique set of personality traits. Ask any woman who has given birth to two or more children and she will attest to the fact that while still in the womb her children showed marked differences in their behavior. http://www.enotalone.com/article/5582.html Each of us is at the center of our own world. Each individual experiences his or her own life more fully than anyone else can. No one else. For each of us, our own tapestry of highly personal and unique experiences influences how we perceive ourselves. we are the masters of our own identity and we fabricate our personalities based on what we deem essential.

P

The very reason that my inner child rules by mischievous distraction is because of my adult experience. Deny your inner child and become an evangelical zealot on a fanatical quest, or a psychopathic political leader

Gerald

you make a statement that is your opinion and expect the world to agree ? it is natural for you to be arrogant when you are young and invulnerable and to know best I did but I had respect and listened and I benefited from it so should you all is not as it seems even now